Blog week six . Free choice ( Sex before marriage )

Sex before marriage should be banned in all the states because it destroys peoples' life in many ways . Also , it destroys the society and leads to huge problems that we do not need . It is almost written in most religions that sex before marriage is not allowed . Religions have many reasons that made them put this decision .
   
         First , most people of different ages have sex before marriage in all the states . This issue goes to teenagers more than adults . Teenagers at the age of thirteen have sex and sometimes children before marriage . This problem will lead to destroy our children who are our coming generation . How come a girl or a boy at this critical age have intercourse . This problem cause terrible pain for the girls who get pregnant , especially when the boy friend runs away leaving the mother suffering from healthy and financial problems .

          Second , having sex before marriage among the adults leads to being not responsible to your duties . For example , I read a book about bringing up children in Islam long time ago . It said that , six out of ten of the American soldiers in the American Army can not do their duties because most of the time they think about sex , which made them lazy and unable to do their daily work .

           Third , having sex without marriage will always lead to a serious problem for the government . for example , when some women get many babies from different lazy men , the government will be the only one to take care of those kids . This will cause the government to lose much money and this will give the fathers of the kids to be more lazy .

      Fourth , we should not forget the transmitted diseases that are caused by having sex with more than one partner or jumping from bed to bed . For example , one woman can give the sexual disease to another man . Some men and women do not like to check themselves to see if they got any sexual disease . This will lead to a big spread of the disease to many people .

            Finally , this problem should be taken into consideration because it causes many problems that we do not need . We need to live with no healthy problems . we also need to build this community without financial burden that we can avoid . Marriage is the only solution that can make us united and happy . This matter is very crucial because marriage strengthen the ties between two couples . It achieves security and stability .